Amy,
I’m proud of you for continuing this very important and beautifully written blog, and for publishing your story on the domestic violence website.
Love, Ellen
Hi. Just stumbled across your story. Much of what you wrote about Luna’s recovery reminds me of what my children experienced after the death of our youngest son, almost 5 years ago. Our 2 oldest children – then 5 & 9 were there in the room when I walked in & discovered that our 6 week old son was not breathing. I am quite sure that they will never forget my scream and my complete despair. We also had 2 year old twins, one of whom thinks she remembers when the paramedics stormed through our house. I don’t think my son’s death is the same type of trauma as a violent rape but I feel similarities in the aftermath when I read what you wrote. We are constantly amazed at the trickle effects that are still felt now. My faith was shaken and we have lost something that we had before. I can’t quite name it but I can feel it. Anyhow, we are doing OK now. Yes, children are resilient but I agree that something like this is not ever forgotten. Kudos to you for being present for your daughter. Just imagine how strong she’s going to be.
congratulations on speaking out. your voice is immense and powerful.
Amy,
I’m proud of you for continuing this very important and beautifully written blog, and for publishing your story on the domestic violence website.
Love, Ellen
Hi. Just stumbled across your story. Much of what you wrote about Luna’s recovery reminds me of what my children experienced after the death of our youngest son, almost 5 years ago. Our 2 oldest children – then 5 & 9 were there in the room when I walked in & discovered that our 6 week old son was not breathing. I am quite sure that they will never forget my scream and my complete despair. We also had 2 year old twins, one of whom thinks she remembers when the paramedics stormed through our house. I don’t think my son’s death is the same type of trauma as a violent rape but I feel similarities in the aftermath when I read what you wrote. We are constantly amazed at the trickle effects that are still felt now. My faith was shaken and we have lost something that we had before. I can’t quite name it but I can feel it. Anyhow, we are doing OK now. Yes, children are resilient but I agree that something like this is not ever forgotten. Kudos to you for being present for your daughter. Just imagine how strong she’s going to be.